Common Questions Mothers Ask

1. Should the mother of the bride and mother of the groom wear complimentary colors?

They don’t need to match — and they definitely shouldn’t clash. Ideally, both mothers choose colors that complement the wedding theme without being identical.

👉 Practical tip (your idea!): Once one mother has chosen her gown, she can simply inform the other family so they know what to avoid.

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2. Long gown or short dress?

In Singapore, long gowns are most common for ballroom or evening weddings, while tea-length dresses may be suitable for daytime garden or church ceremonies. The safest choice is usually a floor length gown, as it conveys formality and presence.

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3. What if the mothers don’t communicate before the wedding?

This is very common in Singapore. In such cases, it’s best for each mother to:

Focus on what flatters her body type.

Choose colors that are elegant and not too close to the bride’s gown color (to avoid confusion in photos).

Select fabrics that feel comfortable for a long day.

Even if they don’t coordinate, as long as both look elegant and refined, the photos will still reflect harmony.

4. Can a Mother Outshine the Bride?

Many mothers worry: “I don’t want to outshine the bride.” This is a thoughtful concern, but here’s the truth: you never will — as long as you choose a design that’s appropriate for mothers.

The bride and both mothers should shine — but in their own lane:

The bride shines with her bridal gown, full of detail and symbolism.

The mothers shine with elegance, grace, and dignity that reflect their role as hosts of the celebration.

When mothers wear gowns designed with refinement in mind — elegant fabrics, flattering cuts, and colors suited to their skin tone — they enhance the beauty of the occasion without ever competing with the bride.

✨ At Flamingo, we guide every mother to find a gown that highlights her best features while respecting the spotlight of the day. Both the bride and mothers deserve to feel radiant — just in different ways.